Monday, June 09, 2014
My first Ex-wife with her/my son explaining!
Ok let me explain it the best that I can. After all this was many years ago and I divorced my wife known as Brenda Joyce Starnes. When we were married after I did my tour in Viet nam, we had one son named Tom Jay Lewis. He almost didn’t make it because of some health issures, but The Torrance California hospital did bring him as he is today with medical problems that will one day have him wheel chaired bound.
This question I have been asked a few times, and instead of replying to each of you with the same letter, may as well explain the full story.
I left Marysville and decided to start over again in Reno, Nevada as a cook for one of the clubs, Tom was probably nine years old and John a few years younger living with my ex wife. (Brenda Lewis) now remarried to some nuts job named Paul Campbell. In fact my sister Carla ,married Pauls best friend at the time now both divorced as well. Things were not going well for my ex-wife Brenda Campbell and I knew that as well. I invited her and my two son’s at that time to come and live in Reno to start over.
I rented an upstairs apartment next to the Nevada sheriff’s department as well as paid for the trip for the three of them to come and start over. I was happy as all hell because I was getting my boys back and we had a place of our own as well as in a new area and I was even working and made good wages as well.
One day I came home from work and expecting to see my wife and kids and no one was there. Went though the house seeking my boys stuff and wife’s things. Everything was gone only my stuff was there. What the hell happened? We had no fight and in fact were all going to go to the movies after my job. I checked with the neighbors which I did not really know as I was not much into meeting people and was just as happy with my own family and didn’t care about anyone else.
None of the neighbors knew anything, but one did feel bad and told me not to say anything because my ex used me and was still in love with Paul Campbell. She explained to me that Paul Campbell could not father kids because of whatever. They were fighting and felt if he could at lease bring a kid into the world using his name maybe things would be better, He also tried to steal my kids as well and I won always as I supported my kids even when they tried to lie about it! Well, Brenda Campbell was her name when she was fucked by me after so many days and no telling how many times. As soon as she was sure that she was again carrying or positive for a kid went back to North Carolina to Paul Campbell. Yes, I was hurt as well as pissed for being used, and said to hell with it. If that is how it was going to be then so be it! I quit my job and went back to Marysville as had another old lady and we loved each other. Another story on her.
As always I was able to locate my old son Tom and knew when things were ok or where they were. That is how William Starnes Campbell came to be. I also did not treat him as my own after all he was also mine and we all knew it, but I would not accept him all because of how I was used. Plus the fact that his last name was legally Campbell. Not at his fault. I also avoided to change it to lewis myself for many years when all three kids were sent to me because there mother left them home alone with no food or anything and Tom would go beg or steal food whenever and keep the boys together. One of the neighbors decided mother was never coming back as so long and I was called by the children s society of Charlotte and questioned as to if they were my kids and if I wanted them back. Of course I did, so that is how I raised my kids after mother left for wherever and today I still have no idea where or what happened. Just know she called as often as she could especially on holidays to make things hard on me by telling the kids to never listen to me as she was going to get them back home one day. After so many flights of sending ping pong kids back and forth they grew up and went there own ways. All of course around me. Jr. Went to visit one day and his mother was married to a guy younger than her son John. The guy was jealous of her son so she placed him in a hotel until i moved out of California and then sent my son john money to come to Arkansas.
Tom also decided to move out of dope controlled Yuba County in hopes to get off the crap. William was in prison for killing a guy that was a giant to him when he was only 16 and was going to break him in half and of course being a small kid at that time was scared so had a gun for protection and you know the rest. Will, married in prison and what ever happened I have no idea even to this day. He did change his name from lewis to Campbell as I guess I did change it to lewis some time along the line. Just have no idea when. But, as I said I was in that grove of dishonest jerks and was able to do a lot. Even keep my kids from doing time when they should have for crimes. Yes, your able to do that stuff in Yuba county. Not as bad as Arkansas was when I first came her. Hell, Officers here collecting fines and people not having to go to court. That was a great one and I said wow. Also another story which also already in here.
But, William Starnes is really a Lewis, an best way to find that out is for my ex-wife telling the truth as to why she came to Reno in the first place. Guess my grand daughter was only one to defend me against my ex-wife when she came to take a grand son back with her as well as visit William which you see here. Grand daughter on son’s side of family his daughter. What exactly was said I have no idea and could care less. Why William and his wife divorced is hard to say as neither will say the reason. But, truth will always pre vale no matter what. Now here are photo’s of my ex married to a younger guy than her son John Lewis Jr.